Narzissmus Spektrum

I am extremely satisfied with the competence and the ability to respond to all my questions. The consultant is really incredibly competent and opened my eyes to many things in the very first conversation. I would recommend her at any time as she is really worth the money.

This is the second time I have taken advantage of her advice and I am absolutely delighted. Erika gives a lot of valuable tips that give me security for the custody dispute and that my lawyer did not give me. She takes a lot of time and leaves no question unanswered.

Erika helped me a lot, she knows exactly what is important, I am glad to have taken advantage of her advice. I think Erika saved me from making (further) mistakes and significantly increased my understanding of how the JA works.
A heartfelt THANK YOU

I am absolutely satisfied with the advice! Honest and competent, professional. Erika makes a lot of effort and assesses the situation correctly. She definitely helps in a difficult situation!

I have now had my 3rd conversation with dear Erika and I realize every time that there are so many things I would do wrong without her.
Even if it's only small things, it can have a big impact.
She communicates clearly how best to proceed and where. After the interview, I feel empowered and more confident in dealing with the institutions. The online course is also highly recommended. I am infinitely grateful to have found Narcissism Spectrum on Instagram back then. The knowledge that Erika imparts is simply priceless for me!

The conversations with Erika are always very uplifting and there is always an "aha" effect afterwards. I feel more confident since the conversations and no longer think I am just a little light in the custody battle, but someone who can make a difference with the right strategy and the right advice. She does a great job and every penny is worth it.

Dear Erika,

Our appointment did me a lot of good, also in the sense that I intuitively did some things right. It strengthened my conviction once again.
I don't know what will happen next, but I won't give up until the battle is finally lost.

Thank you for your time, I'll be happy to come back to you.

Lg Simone

Dear Erika,

Thank you very much for the detailed and informative conversation with you. You were able to open my eyes with your valuable tips. Erika is a professional in this field.
I wish I had had this conversation before my proceedings, then I would have gone into the hearing more enlightened and confident.
In future, I will always think of Erika before I take action, because mistakes happen so quickly and cannot always be undone.
I recommend every woman who has children and is affected by narcissism to get professional help before it's too late.

I felt that I received absolutely competent advice. The information I received in this short time is worth its weight in gold. And I actually think it was decisive for the war. Not even from my very good lawyer have I received as much insider knowledge as from Erika. No bellyaching, no unnecessary small talk. I was taken seriously, there was a lively exchange at eye level, although Erika is an absolute specialist in this field who, in my opinion, is second to none. Not only her own experience, but also her honest, open manner and clear statement of facts, as well as drawing attention to personal responsibility, prepared me for a very important negotiation. I am going into the next few weeks with an absolutely superior feeling, not only because she does my heart good, but above all because she has recognized the system and shares important information here that I have never read or been told before. Thank you for that! Thank you for your help and your hard work for us moms and dads. I can give an unreserved recommendation.

I had been following the Instagram channel for some time and this is how I became aware of the consultation. I then used the contact form to make initial contact and had a fair and honest consultation. Making an appointment was also very good and they even responded to my rather urgent request. I was able to learn a lot for myself in the first conversation. And in the second consultation there were also a few things that helped me personally. The view of such a competent advisor gave me a few insights that I hadn't been able to formulate before. The price-performance ratio here is very good and I am really glad to have received this advice. It probably won't be the last time either.

I finally felt understood - 100%! I didn't have to explain anything or make myself understood, because everything I said was comprehensible. The strategy meeting with Erika helped me a lot with the court hearing and how I should/may continue to behave. I will definitely book another appointment with her.

I had a long-term relationship with a narcissistic partner, which resulted in two children together. After the separation, he immediately began to fight for the children and the alternation model (although he naturally had very limited interest in them during the relationship). Fortunately, despite my initial doubts, I contacted Erika before the first meeting with the youth welfare office. With her help, I was able to score points with the youth welfare office right from the start and make a good first impression, despite my ex-partner's lies and manipulations. In her coaching sessions, Erika manages to give you strategies, arguments and formulations that work, with which you can strengthen your position and allow your ex-partner to expose themselves bit by bit. It's not about ranting against your ex-partner, but staying true to yourself and focusing on your own goals and how to achieve them. What I find particularly great is that you come away from the conversations with Erika with a new inner strength and transfer this into your appointments and dealings with the narcissist. You get the feeling more and more that you can really make a difference and that you are not helpless. As dealing with narcissists is often a marathon in front of the youth welfare office and other authorities, Erika's strategies are also designed for long-term success (although of course you can also celebrate short-term successes!). I would heartily recommend Erika to anyone who finds themselves in a similarly difficult situation. Her extensive knowledge and know-how are simply worth their weight in gold. She is also very personable and genuine and the consultations are simply fun. :-)

Dear Erika,

Through your really enriching and extremely helpful work, which is freely available on Instagram, you have given me the opportunity to recognize what situation I am in.
Without this educational work, I and my child would probably still be in a very bad way today.

Your telephone consultations also resolved important issues and prevented me from making serious mistakes in ongoing proceedings. You helped me to calm my doubts and face the challenges with more self-confidence. I thank you for that. The remuneration you received for your work is difficult to outweigh the result.

Thank you very much and I can only recommend you without reservation.

Dear Erika! You can be seen as the light in the dark tunnel of contact and custody proceedings!
Apart from the fact that you give me universal strategies, you also prepare me 1:1 for the upcoming situation. This mixture gives me a lot of self-confidence, which was previously destroyed by the system. Your help has already helped me out of the crisis once and will do so again in the upcoming process. Thank you for your help, your encouragement and your expertise!
I am glad to know that no matter what my ex is planning, you will know what to do to expose him. Your motto is my guiding principle: resistance through cooperation!
Thank you and I look forward to our next appointment! Best regards Annabell

Erika is the right person to talk to if you find yourself in a situation where you need professional help with contact and custody proceedings. With her, you can work out an individual roadmap for long-term success. In my situation, I was already halfway on the right track. Erika encouraged me in my actions and gave me more tips on how to score positive points with the authorities. Let's be honest, we'll never be able to score points with our toxic ex-partners in child matters again. I would have given her even more stars. It won't have been the last consultation with Erika. Such proceedings are lengthy and we have to persevere! Both thumbs up for Erika and her first-class advice.

Super appointment! Individual, good quality and very encouraging to get straight into action!
Great content that is very encouraging!
Many thanks for the service!

Really great coaching. A real game changer. I can recommend it to anyone who wants to get out of the "I have to justify myself" game. It's also not "how can I get revenge" or "I have to get one over on him". It's very clear: how does the system work and how can I win the system over?
I can recommend Erika 100%. 🫶🏼

Thank you dear Erika ❤️

Super advice. Very individual and intensive. Learning from those who have been through the same thing. Thanks to the intensive advice, I hit the nail on the head.
Thank you .

I've already been through more than 5 years of "contact disputes" with several court cases and "psychological terror" behind me. Most recently, my ex-husband sued for the alternating model. I wish I had known Erika earlier. I find my situation 100% reflected in her posts and have realized that things could have been different if I had put my fears and emotions aside and acted more thoughtfully. Erika opened my eyes and showed me that it's very important in situations like this to keep your head together, keep yourself informed and take a strategic approach. I wasted a lot of energy in the wrong place because I simply didn't know any better in recent years. In the meantime, I have already booked several coaching appointments with Erika to exchange ideas and discuss how I should behave in difficult situations that continue to arise with my ex-husband (he just won't shut up).

I feel that I am in very good hands with Erika because she understands me, my fears and emotions 100%, which is not possible for someone who has not experienced this psychological terror themselves. These conversations do me a lot of good and give me security and hope. I can only advise everyone to seek additional help in the form of this kind of coaching in good time. But it also gives you strength afterwards and you no longer feel alone with such a problem.